Why do things exist?
Feelings are a shorthand for rational decision-making… something that can often go awry. It’s something I think about whenever I’m compelled to eat an entire bag of chips. Why do things exist? Why doesn’t the moon fall? It doesn’t feel right that gravity doesn’t apply, but that doesn’t make it true. It also doesn’t […]
When will my sister finally OPEN her eyes?
The hardest thing about helping a friend is being sure that you’re really right (and not right in your worldview and goals, but right in terms of theirs). If you just have different goals, show respect. If something real’s going wrong, here’s a card on that. When will my sister finally OPEN her eyes? […]
What do you do when your best friend doesn’t believe you over something, then decides to spread a false rumor?
Rumors and accusations can be painful. But keep in mind that the gossipy people who love rumors make the worst friends and are the least trusted by others. The people worth keeping, the ones who are giving to others, are sane enough to ask for your side of the story. Here’s a card about that. […]
DO YOU HAVE A CAT ? (I’m 5)
Let’s face it, anything kids say is cute, no matter how mundane. But actually, some of the most thoughtful and honest questions come from kids. This is not one of them. 🙂 DO YOU HAVE A CAT ? (I’m 5) I do not have a cat, but I can make tiger noises! Can you? […]
should i forgive my molester? do i have to?
When I get very serious questions, I usually refer them to the United Way. You can dial 211 from any telephone and get referred to any kind of social support service. It’s free, but you have to make the call to get started. They aren’t mindreaders. should i forgive my molester? do i have to? […]
Will we make it past this difficult time?
Urban commuting is dehumanizing. We pass thousands of strangers without even a nod or meeting eyes. Sometimes, when I see a person with a particularly sad or frazzled look, I say, “Hey — Whatever it is, it’ll get better soon, I promise. Hang in there and smile.” I usually try to do it in a […]
Why I can’t never be happy when it comes to love? :) <3 <3 <3
Anxiety can destroy a relationship as much as dishonesty or abuse. The key is getting a reality check. If what you’re doing isn’t making you happy, change it. If it is, take a deep breath and chill out. The rest of us which we were you. 🙂 Why I can’t never be happy when it […]
How do I LIVE without alcohol, i’m so afraid of sobriety X-P
This week I got back to jogging, even in the impossibly cold weather. It’s hard. Most people don’t form new habits from sheer willpower. I don’t like to destroy the artistic theme by changing the cards. But this time I’m going to add one phrase: Ask for help. How do I LIVE without alcohol i’m […]
Why do I hate myself?
Why do I hate myself? You’re being taught to by some people in your life who constantly blame you unfairly. It’s hard not to let that affect your self-image! You need to back away physically & emotionally from any friends, family, lovers, co-workers who aren’t good to you. Be strong! You won’t be alone, […]
(scribbles) From Kate (2 yrs old)
Maybe this is how Jackson Pollock got his start. 🙂 (scribbles) From Kate (2 yrs old) Hi Kate! Are you influenced in your art more by cubism or surrealism? Keep practicing! 🙂 ——– Want daily inspiration? Subscribe! And try my other blog, Weird Boston Events.
