I think my closest and oldest friend might be mad at me.
I seem to have a few regulars at the garden, so I get to hear if my advice is going anywhere. Here’s a card from someone who’s signed as “Desperately Needs Decaf”, who started by asking a couple of sillier questions. I think my closest and oldest friend might be mad at me. […]
How do we know when to take our art in a new direction?
How do we know when to take our art in a new direction? How do we know when to act on inspiration when it conflicts w/ creating inspiration? *Thank you for the sharing of your art! The essence of art is its impact. Anyone can use borrowed phrases like “I’m sick to my […]
I stole… I can’t seem to put it behind me… It was all a long time ago…
Most of us aren’t criminal, but we all have regrets. Here’s a card about moving past that. Don’t forget to love yourself. I stole. “Publicly”. Ineffectively. I can’t seem to put it behind me. It affects how I relate to things, and people. Conscience naggy. Cannot look people in the eye for long. […]
How does one deal with… people who… hate others without reason?
This card’s about people with lots of anger and how to handle them. When someone barks at you, they’re saying both the accusation and also “want to fight?”. If you bark back, you’re saying no to the accusation but yes to “ok, let’s fight!”. Try saying no to both. You always have the right to […]
…what the hell im going to do with my life after graduating?
Here’s an example of how little room there is to write a reply on these cards! At least I don’t write for fortune cookies. They’re even smaller! 🙂 How can I stay motivated while my life is hectic? … as well as figure out what the hell im going to do with my […]
What’s it that I need to bring balance to my life + work?
What’s it that I need to bring balance to my life + work? Make a list of all your projects and responsibilities & which are really making you happy. What can you fix or drop to free up some emotional room in your life? What should you keep but perform more efficiently? Ask […]
Where can I find peace & quiet?
My friend Joan sent me a book about publishing for my birthday. Thanks! I hope to write a book about the Abyss experience. But it’s a little scary. We’ll see! Where can I find peace & quiet? You have to built it into your life. Make a list of the things that […]
I’m still fighting that lonely feeling. What can I do?
There have now been more than 700 cards written and answered in the Abyss! Each one was written and delivered personally by some anonymous question asker to my garden. I’m hoping to get to 1000 by the end of 2008. You can see them all on the website at http://Wheelquestions.org I’ve been alone […]
I have a crush and no way to tell them about it.
Here are matched boy/girl crushes. I wonder if they are writing about each other! My ‘grade school’ approach works for adults too, by the way! I have a crush and no way to tell them about it. How can I get her to feel the same way back? And how do I keep […]
I have someone very close that seems to just be hurting me and I can’t help but want to be with them.
I don’t seem to smile all that much anymore. I have someone very close that seems to just be hurting me and I can’t help but want to be with them. Do I sacrifice myself to wait? Make a list of all the problems in your life & problems in the relationship. This […]
