Today I’m doing my best to put everything I have to say about life down on paper. It’s hard.
Here’s some advice on helping someone you love. But sometimes, you can’t. Sometimes, you shouldn’t, because you’re wrong. And sometimes you shouldn’t, because even if you’re right, sometimes we have to make our own mistakes to learn.
If you start with the solution, she’ll resist because she doesn’t see the problem yet. Have her make a list of all the problems in her life (you do it too) and ask her, if she agrees there’s a problem, how long she can tolerate it for if there’s no change. Ultimately if you’ve a history of judging her, she may only listen to a friend. Try to contact one. <3 ——– Want daily inspiration? Subscribe! And try my other blog, Weird Boston Events. |