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Make a list of the pros & cons, and watch out for mysterious infinite family obligations to get out or such, get a friend & measure what's really appropriate and don't be guiled into more, people in your family, if they love you, should respect your needs too. Don't jump ship until you have a new job & don't stay if you can't survive financially.