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It's the head. Your emotions are important for setting goals & a sense of happiness. But if you can make a plan from the head it's more likely to work. If your logic is flawed you'll just to untangle it. Try making a list of pros & cons and bring in a friend to help you write it down, instead of expecting immediate clarity.