“That’s all too normal. *HUGS* the problem is usually confidence. Shed the people & respon asdfadsf ”

That's all too normal. *HUGS* the problem is usually confidence. Shed the people & responsibilities that drain you & you'll be braver about asking people out, braver about saying no to the wrong people, & you'll be able to relax & say yes without anxiety to someone who's consistently giving back.