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Anonymous | Davis Square, Somerville, MA USA | @@MySoulburners
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How do I tell my boyfriend of (3yrs now) that he's let me down unbearably? What to do, what to do?

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Anonymous | | @@MySoulburners
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Start with how it affected you. If you hop directly into what he did, he doesn't see the problem & empathize yet. So get out there & tell him! Write it down for him first but say you want to speak, too. You mustn't let trouble fester. And you mustn't pretend that people change easily. You should tell him you may have to let him go if he cant.