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I feel so disconnected from life. I do participate (I have a fianc, friends, family), but most of the time feel disconnected from the latter two, even tho' there's no particular event to have caused the disconnect. I live in the city and am surrounded by people who appear to be fulfilled and having a great time, and yet I can't shake (and really have never been successful at shaking) a feeling of emptiness and loneliness.nHow can I connect? How do I find kindred spirits (other than my fianc?) - a community?nThank you for setting this up. It is wonderful! :)