“Should I go to San Francisco where my 9 year old daughter lives with her Mom, who i don’t got asdfadsf ”

Should I go to San Francisco where my 9 year old daughter lives with her Mom, who i don't got along with or stay here in Cambrige where i', from and my family is , and I know people , and set up my life here. They're probably moving to NIC in a year, according to my ex.