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Anonymous | Harvard Square, Cambridge, MA USA | @@MySoulburners
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What's the best way to let a guy know you arn't into him after a date? (as in to not have to go out again without blowing him off completely)

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Anonymous | | @@MySoulburners
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The only drama is what the two of you inject. Just send a short note thanking him for giving it a shot & say matter-of-factly that you didn't feel a connection and wish him well. It's true that some guys won't react well, but don't get guilted into talking it through. And for the guys who are sweet, it's courteous to let him know & it prevent an awkward moment when he calls you.