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Anonymous | Harvard Square, Cambridge, MA USA | @@MySoulburners
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Why do I always end up alone? Relationships & pairing off, or even just talking to people in a bar come so easily bothers, but not to me. It seems that I can do the impossible things easily, but basics, such as love, intimacy, and togetherness, elude me.

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Anonymous | | @@MySoulburners
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It takes practice & confidence, just like you can build fashion since by being alert to what people wear, be alert to how people communicate. You're not alone in feeling awkward!! Get a friend to advise you & go out on the town with you. Practice. You make the first move & say hi to a strange & ask someone out. Join hobby clubs or go online, Take active steps to shed your baggage-it's energizing!