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Anonymous | Harvard Square, Cambridge, MA USA | @@MySoulburners
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Why do I complain about people, yet bend over backwards to please them?

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Anonymous | | @@MySoulburners
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It's called passive aggressive behavior. you give too much & when it's not reciprocated (either because you give to people who aren't very giving, or you over give so much that nobody could keep up) you feel frustrated & start blaming others. Give only as much as you're given back to, with friends, family, & lovers.