“Why is it that 30+ years after the Women’s Movement and Civil Rights Movement in the U.S. of A asdfadsf ”

Why is it that 30+ years after the Women's Movement and Civil Rights Movement in the U.S. of A that an intelligent, educated, confident, creative, hard-working Black woman cannot meet a similar adult male of any race (by any means necessary) to go see a flippin' movie, even, forget about a soulmate?!?!n-MAK,45