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Anonymous | Harvard Square, Cambridge, MA USA | @@MySoulburners
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will I able to forgive him for all the damage he's done? And am allowed to claim the right of forgiveness?

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Anonymous | | @@MySoulburners
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Don't forgive him. When are you going to stop being permissive & make relationships where you aren't make to feel quilt for what the other person has done? If he wants forgiveness, let him earn it over a year or more. Meanwhile, say no and put your energy into confident centered people who won't mistreat you in the first place.