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Fear of love comes from being permissive & idealistic, so that you don't see bad behavior in a mate. And if you lack confidence, you may have unrealistic ideas about never finding love again or being destroyed by a breakup.nThe solution is: stop falling in love by your heart alone. Use your head also & be analytical. Make a list of what you need in a relationship & don't settle! Saying no builds confidence & lessens fear.