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Fly there and spend the whole weekend being just friends to show her that your fondness for her is genuine. Break the bad news to her immediately & spend the rest of the time making her laugh & see that the world is not ending. If neither of you want to relocate, it's pretty much over already, unfortunately.n* hugs *