“Having a – sense of what to tolerate and when you give up comes as you build self- confidence. asdfadsf ”

Having a - sense of what to tolerate and when you give up comes as you build self- confidence. Most people are on the side of being too permissive. If you're able to say no that's healthy, but you then have to be open enough to risk saying yes to meet more people. Keep at it! Sounds like you're doing just fine.