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He loves you if he is constantly thinking of you & calling just to say hi or planning little outings. He doesn't love you (or doesn't know how to love) if he's jealous, irritable, or disrespectful. A good relationship is balanced where you give as much as you get. If you feel like you have no choice that's not a reason for love.