“If you’re with a partner who doesn’t want you to succeed, they’re probably worried asdfadsf ”

If you're with a partner who doesn't want you to succeed, they're probably worried that they won't be able to keep your attention & lose you as you move up. Don't date jealous, weak; ego people with a mindset of hoping you fail. If what you're really asking is, how do I find time to be loving when I'm working so hard I think you need a reality check. How time intensive is it to call to say hi, leave a love note, and go on a day trip?