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Invite a friend over & make a list of pros & cons. It's a mistake to sacrifice your own dreams for anyone, even children. And by now you realize that child-rearing is wonderful but much of it is drudgery. Give serious though to letting someone else help with the grunt work & giving yourself the time to live life to the fullest.