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It's completely valid to be content without a partner. I often hear someone say I don't have time for relationship or I just can't deal with that now, which is code for their belief that all relationships are draining. Of course that's not true, so make sure your happy alone-ness doesn't come from false assumptions. The better you know yourself, the easier choosing is.