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It's too big a decision for your gut. Your gut may mislead you by being fearful of change, or by over idealizing that a change of location or partner will solve other problems.nSo use your head. Make a list of the entire pro & cons, and if there are too many unknowns, think creatively about how you can try out this person more before a full commitment you might feel stuck in.