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Life is confusing and everyone has trouble figuring out what changes to want. Make a list of what's making you unhappy and try to identify the underlying problems. Get ideas from others who inspire you who have made changes. And you don't have to have a clear vision to make a start. Jump in experiment, be practical about what's really working & making you happy.