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Make a list of all the relationships & responsibilities in your life and what's genuinely making you happy & what's draining you. Use your head instead of your heart. Back away from the negative & you will gain confidence. That's attractive & gives you the strength to say no to the wrong guys & the self-knowledge to know what's really right for you, what you need to be happy. Go at it and have at least one date a week!