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Make a list of what you're looking for & what's important to you. Don't over idealize that the places you aren't in must be better somehow. For example, Boston is cold and it's easy to think the weather's better elsewhere. But we don't have droughts, exhausting heat, tornados or hurricanes or earthquakes or big snakes. Ask friends in other places for a reality check & remember you can be happy anywhere really!