Do you complain about things that don’t really matter in a way that lacks focus (topic A, then topic B, then topic C)? Just because you feel annoyed or anxious doesn’t necessarily mean someone besides you is causing that. Use your head to overrule your heart when it’s wrong. Think, am I really right? and How much would I pay to wipe this away? $500? $50? $5? How upset should I be over $5 trouble? <3