People who are off-balance with a lot of frustration because they can’t get ahead often fall victim to the attitude that they’re the victim & can lash out. or they’re just in the habit of it, having been trained by their friends & family. The trick is, don’t get emotionally close to irritable people, & you can tell if you’re alert & not permissive. Put your energy into finding people who’ll be good to you. Dump the rest!