Invite a friend over & try to figure out first, is it healthy enough to save? Are you both consistently giving & never fighting? If you’re done something wrong, make a plan to fix it & apologize. If it’s just not working even though you feel it should, well, sometimes feelings can mislead us. If it’s your partner’s fault, well ,you can’t change someone else by over giving. Explain how you’re being hurt & don’t be hard on yourself.