“The trick is not to be permissive. You’ve been trained by people close to you (friends, family asdfadsf ”

The trick is not to be permissive. You've been trained by people close to you (friends, family, lovers, co-workers) that when your date's rude to the waiter or barks at you, you think, I shouldn't be judgmental, or maybe he's just having a bad day, or maybe it's my fault! You don't even notice that you should be thinking, this is a sign that this guy's no good! I should say no! You don't need to trust. Just open your eyes. <3 <3