“This is too big a question for your gut instinct. Use your head and without but I love him delusions asdfadsf ”

This is too big a question for your gut instinct. Use your head and without but I love him delusions make a list of what you really need in a partner to be happy in the long term, starting with is he good to me? if it's not him, leave. If it might be him but you've waited so long that this is no longer a short term love, put him on notice & leave no later than 2months if he can't change.