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You can tell if you are reaching out to them about the same that they are reaching out to you. If you're overdoing it, try to spread your enthusiasm across more friends or take up a hobby. If you have friends who simply aren't very giving, don't let that get to your self-image. You're doing just fine, it's just some people aren't very giving. Let those go.