The question here, while shocking, is better than my answer, which is incomplete. I should have added, so of course only the people who mistreat you come into your life. It’s your job to keep them out and don’t lose hope. Good people are out there. 🙂
What a remarkably ignorant question.
It’s all in your choices.
You’re so permissive it’s like standing on the street with a sign saying “will take anyone”.
Confident, healthy people who’ll treat you well find that a turnoff.