It’s easy enough to attend church but skip saying some of the chants, so the real problem seems to be letting down your family. Ask them how they were raised & differences from your grandparents, as a segue into discussing your own differences with them. Hopefully when you say you love & respect them despite the differences, they’ll be ok. There are always “safe topics” if not.
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