If im the one who always calls and texts, but when we hang out he seems very invested and interested — what is going on??

Unfortunately, yes.

There’s nothing you can do to make somebody else become a giving person. But you definitely deserve someone who’s as giving as you are. You can spot giving people more easily if you don’t jump into all the outreach.

Back off & see who joins you in reaching out. To get to “yes”, be strong & able to say “no”.

<3 <3