It’s generous to give people the benefit of the doubt, but generosity can be taken advantage of, something I am reminded of through my big hunt (successful!) for a new apartment. Here’s a card on that. This kind of question is so popular that I’ve given it it’s own category tag, “What’s wrong with men / women?”
First off, don’t be a dork, you know that not all guys lie. 🙂
The secret is that you’re being too permissive. Guys who lie misbehave in all kinds of ways that you can catch early.
Aim for the honest & you’ll find ’em!
🙂 <3 <3