How do I know if it’s TRUE LOVE?
How do I know if it’s TRUE LOVE?
I want to do something reckless like leave all belongings and travel but everyone I know & love thinks its too risky
If I write the same entry in my journal (same theme, different situations) should I simply realize: “Oh this is a trend in my life” or should I try to change what’s happening if I can even change it at all. Basically, I’m bored… I want to do something reckless like leave all belongings and […]
WHAT IS THE PURPOSE? THE HIGHEST VISION?
THE I AM THAT I AM HAS SENT ME HERE FOR AN ANSWER HERE I AM SO, WHAT DO I DO NOW? WHAT IS THE PURPOSE? THE HIGHEST VISION? THANK YOU Ian You have a friend who needs you and is in too much pain to ask. Find this friend and help them reassess […]
Will I ever fall deeply in love?
Will I ever fall deeply in love? Yes, but you have to do more than wait. Join a club, go to parties, go online. Be brave and you be the one to start conversation. Aim for one date per week! 🙂
I’m 40. He is 66. We are passionately in love. Do you think our love lasts?
I’m 40. He is 66. We are passionately in love. Do you think our love lasts? And why do you think so? Love starts on instinct, but it kept going on the deposits & withdrawals you make. When two people are givers, there’s no reason for love to end. Don’t worry about age. Just […]
My dearest friend and I were walking down an unknown road and he just decided to turn right.
I’m currently in the middle of a problem like this card, so I empathize completely and fully. Really, any two people who want to work something out should be able to. The trouble comes when you discover that one or both of you doesn’t care enough to. The question then becomes, what’s the real problem […]
How do I stop my fears from disabling me?
How do I stop my fears from disabling me? Add some structure to your life by getting organized & making plans. This diminishes the fear of the unknown. Also make a mental note when something you fear works out just fine & use that memory to combat your fear next time. Finally, you should […]
My sister… wants to send my nephew to a Christian high school. Should I intervene?
Here’s a card from a concerned aunt. Is she just trying to help? Or is she meddling with a child that is not hers? Unfortunately, it’s both. There’s nothing wrong with expressing an alternative viewpoint. But covertly undermining how someone is raising their child is sort of an act of war. Better to do it […]
Should we wait to get married?
Should we wait to get married? Yes. Marriage doesn’t really add much stability over simply being engaged & living together, and if the worst happens & you break up, there’s far less stigma. Wait until you’re mature enough that you’re making choices that match your real needs — you’ll know you’re there when drama […]
How can you tell when you’re waited long enough?
How can you tell when you’re waited long enough? + What if it’s still worth waiting for? – C M At some point, you have to cut your losses. Make a list of the changes you need to be truly happy in the long term, and then think: how long has it been? Has […]
