Can my relationship with my son move beyond conflict to a place where I can be happy with my role as a father
We take advice better from the people who first show respect and empathy. Here’s a card on that. Can my relationship with my son move beyond conflict to a place where I can be happy with my role as a father Yes. Rebellion is normal; it’s part of the angst of not knowing who […]
How will I know what I want to become as I grow older?
How will I know what I want to become as I grow older? Most people don’t have this strike of lightning insight wher it all becomes clear & they’re happy with one passion forever. It’s really OK to experiment & change your mind. Try using your head instead of your heart. Think on all […]
How can I help my friend take a break from taking care of the world in order to take care of herself?
Taking care of yourself so you can take care of others is a big theme for my friend Joan Celebi, who is a life coach for parents, especially those who have children with special needs. You can see her website at http://specialneedsparentcoach.com. How can I help my friend take a break from taking care of […]
How should I handle my evil stepmother?
Here’s a card that applies to anyone difficult: friends, family, dating, or in business. How should I handle my evil stepmother? I’ve tried being nice — and wrote her a letter of reconciliation but to no avail. She didn’t respond. I want to be a part of my family! Say this to yourself as […]
Should I take a major risk that has the potential to bring about great happiness?
Should I take a major risk that has the potential to bring about great happiness? You can figure it out using your head, not your heart. Make a pros & cons list and try to avoid fear of risk and overestimation of gain. Will it cost not much and failure won’t be tremendous? Are […]
People shouldn’t try to hide themselves… Do you agree?
Sometimes people write me back after I’ve answered their first question. Here’s a reply to the card I posted on Christmas, “Is there such a thing as normal?” Responce to normal question: Thanks Johnny! I don’t really think there is such a thing as normal because everyone is different. Being different is being unique and […]
Why do I feel… that I should find a partner to find happiness?
Happy New Year! If you’d like to see some photos of the Wheel in the snow, go to http://wheelquestions.org/backstage. Sunday, Nov 23 Hello Johnny, This is a beautiful garden. One thing I’m wondering about today is: Why do I feel this underlying, nagging sort of voice telling me that I should find a partner to […]
Am I wasting my time on someone that might take forever to realize that I’m the one?
Is he the one? Am I wasting my time on someone that might take forever to realize that I’m the one? 🙂 This is too big a question for your gut instinct. Use your head and without “but I love him” delusions make a list of what you really need in a partner to […]
Is it OK to promise the same thing to yourself on New Year’s Eve every year?
Is it OK to promise the same thing to yourself on New Year’s Eve every year? It’s normal to want to change but be afraid to. Mark a day on your calendar — within a month — as “change day” and have a party with friends. Present to them a list of what you […]
I know I could grow old with him but in these cynical times everything seems too good to be true.
Here’s a good card for New Years. And if you’re curious where to go and what to do, check out my Blog on quirky Boston events. I’ve been with him for four years. I know I could grow old with him but in these cynical times everything seems too good to be true. Why […]
