God What should I do with my life ? How would you like me to be? Who would you like me to be?

This is one of these cards where it’s best to take a deep breath and say, thank goodness I don’t live in a lawless area of the world like Somalia now or 10th century anywhere. There is injustice in the world, but we also live in the most prosperous, most democratic, least criminal, least warring […]

If im the one who always calls and texts, but when we hang out he seems very invested and interested — what is going on?? Should I back off?   Unfortunately, yes. There’s nothing you can do to make somebody else become a giving person. But you definitely deserve someone who’s as giving as you […]

I’m a single Mom and a year ago I left an abusive relationship with my young son in tow. I’m there for my son everyday, but not so much for myself. When will I be okay?   Just like you can’t stop the rain but you can buy an umbrella & watch the weather report… […]

Inspiration can only come from the inside. Here’s a card on that… I may not get to retrieve this card — we made a special stop just to see this art. I want to know how I’m supposed to find happiness when I feel trapped? financially by student loans and the economy and have to […]

Too cute to pass up. 🙂 Do you like my picture? ALEX I’m almost 3   I do like your picture! I have never seen a giant whale on a plane fighting a giant octopus before! Get your parents to buy you some mural paper & make the hugest happy ever.

The hardest part of the question is that, shaking your life up may not change anything unless you shake the right thing! Get a friend to give you another viewpoint. 🙂 When life becomes stagnant in almost every way, how do you get it unstuck? Thanks!   You shake it up. You have so much […]

I have a friend who is really close to me. I want to be more than friends, but I don’t want to ruin what relationship I do have. How do I get out of the “Friend Zone?”   Try asking a mutual friend to broach the topic, like they do in grade school. It works […]

How am I supposed to treat the one who hurt me & broke my heart? I’m still Angry and confuced after a year. I have to see him all the time – we live in the same neighborhood, have the same friends. Everytime I try to be nice, I get hurt again.   If your […]

Is she right for me?   She’s right for you if she’s good to you. What, it’s supposed to be complex? Find a friend and be realistic. Is she giving & never gets irritable & you feel comfortable? Are you equally giving, not allowing an imbalance of too much taking or giving? 🙂 🙂

will I be good 🙂   You are already good. The real question is, can you be brave? What do you want out of life and how can you be brave in getting it? 🙂